# So frustrating **URL:** \ **Category:** Recovery\ **Created:** [January 18, 2026, 1:40am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284 "2026-01-18T01:40:16Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![laura429559](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/laura429559/32/130866_2.png) [@laura429559](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/laura429559)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2026, 1:40am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/1 "2026-01-18T01:40:16Z")
2 friends from this app. Nonadsicts. Here to "find someone." Asking ealry on the reason for joining Loosid....and one was because his wife was an alcoholic. The other said "wants someone to call his own." Make it make sense....lol...People surely will reach to all kinds of levels to fill their time I suppose. I am fairly new on here. Naive of me to think like a normal person. Being nice. Being honest and friendly. At least I was able to avoid the opportunity for them to ask for money..lol Be aware, trust no one. Yay to another day sober though! ---
**Author:** ![ryan409593](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/ryan409593/32/123884_2.png) [@ryan409593](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/ryan409593)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 9:35am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/2 "2026-01-19T09:35:18Z")
People are crazy ---
**Author:** ![lauren425141](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/lauren425141/32/130681_2.png) [@lauren425141](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/lauren425141)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 9:50am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/3 "2026-01-19T09:50:19Z")
Hi Laura I hope you're well? Yes unfortunately discontented people or shall I said the bad apples are everywhere. I agree with you this app is important and it's helped ed me tremendously to save my life for God's sakes! Thank you for the warning. When they get too friendly too fast and also insist on going on another app to talk more privately yeah sure! ---
**Author:** ![patrick428100](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/patrick428100/32/125305_2.png) [@patrick428100](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/patrick428100)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 9:58am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/4 "2026-01-19T09:58:33Z")
Yay to another day sober is right Real AA people don’t want anything from you They wish sobriety for you ---
**Author:** ![michael410470](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/michael410470/32/130769_2.png) [@michael410470](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/michael410470)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 1:16pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/5 "2026-01-19T13:16:10Z")
@laura429559 Bono from U2 is correct... They still haven't found what they're looking for and that's sad. Sobriety is based on attraction rather than promotion. Yes, it's sad that there are "those" types of people on this app. ---
**Author:** ![mark412519](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/mark412519/32/123310_2.png) [@mark412519](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/mark412519)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 2:55pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/6 "2026-01-19T14:55:54Z")
That, my friend is a great post! Made me laugh - thank you! ---
**Author:** ![chris394127](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/chris394127/32/121463_2.png) [@chris394127](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/chris394127)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 3:34pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/7 "2026-01-19T15:34:22Z")
Just give us your cc # to avoid this from happening again.😜 Not everyone is on here to get sober support, internet trolls 🧌 ---
**Author:** ![danny157478](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/danny157478/32/78997_2.png) [@danny157478](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/danny157478)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 4:27pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/8 "2026-01-19T16:27:11Z")
Hai so funny! Same here, some ladies looking for marriage or relationships on an addict recovery site. Ding dongs😅 or scammers. ---
**Author:** ![teresa199513](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/teresa199513/32/98240_2.png) [@teresa199513](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/teresa199513)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 4:39pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/9 "2026-01-19T16:39:05Z")
I think it's an especially evil person who preys on people in recovery and I notice it on here all the time ---
**Author:** ![412506](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/412506/32/124201_2.png) [@412506](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/412506)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 5:34pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/10 "2026-01-19T17:34:49Z")
I join this site for sobriety ONLY and increase my sober network and share my experience, strength and hope with other sober people. Some people are searching for friends with benefits, but that is not me ---
**Author:** ![paula433056](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/paula433056/32/125048_2.png) [@paula433056](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/paula433056)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 6:12pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/11 "2026-01-19T18:12:09Z")
There’s always a few in every crowd. You’ll know when they are not in it for the right reasons. They don’t get it and never will. Stay focused on you and don’t let them get to you. Consider it like those people that buy you drinks in a bar so your guard will be down. Same difference but instead you’re not taking the bait. Stay strong ---
**Author:** ![jesse405620](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/jesse405620/32/124987_2.png) [@jesse405620](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/jesse405620)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2026, 6:16pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/12 "2026-01-19T18:16:04Z")
Yep. Thats y I stopped accepting friend request before I see if they have posted anything. Some people's kids. Right ---
**Author:** ![crissy267894](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/crissy267894/32/107838_2.png) [@crissy267894](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/crissy267894)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2026, 12:10am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/13 "2026-01-21T00:10:39Z")
Laura, I get why that would throw you off. You came here for sobriety support, not all that other stuff. Thanks for speaking up. If anyone feels off or pushes past your boundaries, tap the three dots and flag it so we can look into it. There are real people here who use this space the way it’s meant to be used. Glad you’re still here and still sober today. ---
**Author:** ![jack446049](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/jack446049/32/126226_2.png) [@jack446049](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/jack446049)\ **Post date:** [January 21, 2026, 3:37am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/14 "2026-01-21T03:37:33Z")
Crazy crazy crazy ---
**Author:** ![dylan443299](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/dylan443299/32/125909_2.png) [@dylan443299](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/dylan443299)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2026, 1:04am UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/15 "2026-01-22T01:04:06Z")
People are crazy, and that’s crazy coming from me lol ---
**Author:** ![kenan223204](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/kenan223204/32/113370_2.png) [@kenan223204](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/kenan223204)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2026, 2:29pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/16 "2026-01-22T14:29:21Z")
Some are sicker than others. ---
**Author:** ![maxci446592](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/maxci446592/32/129051_2.png) [@maxci446592](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/maxci446592)\ **Post date:** [January 22, 2026, 3:11pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/17 "2026-01-22T15:11:30Z")
Girl, who are you telling!! lol the online world can be tough to navigate. I was on loosid dating and thought I met my match. Until he asked me for money​:joy:😩 romance scammers are a real thing. ---
**Author:** ![my126711](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/my126711/32/121299_2.png) [@my126711](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/my126711)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2026, 2:49pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/18 "2026-01-24T14:49:31Z")
If you send me just $10 a month I can set you up with a surefire way to keep scammers away! ---
**Author:** ![ceci388983](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/ceci388983/32/122249_2.png) [@ceci388983](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/ceci388983)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2026, 5:41pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/19 "2026-01-24T17:41:14Z")
Oh no ! Can never forget us alcoholics are still fighting with that addict brain. In addicts of other vices. ---
**Author:** ![ceci388983](https://forum04.loosid.cc/user_avatar/forum04.loosid.cc/ceci388983/32/122249_2.png) [@ceci388983](https://forum04.loosid.cc/u/ceci388983)\ **Post date:** [January 24, 2026, 5:42pm UTC](https://forum04.loosid.cc/t/so-frustrating/139284/20 "2026-01-24T17:42:17Z")
That’s pretty funny. I see what you tried to do there.